Terrible Truth
The truth! Now there’s a joke. What is the truth? Today, truth seems more blurred than ever. “The honest-to-God truth!” we proclaim, perhaps with our fingers crossed behind our backs. The truth is what one says is the truth—or is it? For some people, repeating a lie often enough eventually turns it into truth in their own minds. They convince themselves that because they believe it, it must be true. Not me. The terrible truth is that it is becoming harder to know what is actually true. Wars have been fought over competing versions of the truth. Marriages have been made, and marriages have been destroyed, based on what one person says is true and another believes to be a lie. “To love, to honor, till death do us part.” Those are powerful words. Yet how easily can someone convince themselves that looking outside the marriage is not really a betrayal? Perhaps they redefine love and fidelity until, in their own mind, they have somehow remained true to their vows. A terrib...